Being a more calm and cool individual

There is pattern in my life with group and girls. I become there entertainemnt and dont get the chicks. I find this happening again and i am going to fix it.

I am going to become a more calm individual. I want this for my life. I am going to continue to run groups but with a much more calm energy. I am finding my issue with energy is rooted to the fact i feel like i constantlly need to be doing something. I dont need to do anything. Let what is be exactely what is.

Cheers
Js

Deep idenity level change

Im reazling its not about the girl, its about yourself. THat deep ass idenity level change. I am finding i am making content into my idenity. I am choding with a girl that i have blown way out of proprotion. Reminder: Life is my party i am a value giver not taker. Simply stop trying to take and be a giver.

Enjoyment

So for me joining a fraternity has been quite difficult when my ego is in the mix. I get caught up in a popularity game. I want to be proud of who i am for my core cofidence not reaction from others. I am writing to remind myself to be a value gifer not a taker. Dont compare what others think of you. Just be who you are. Be a value giver. Dont do this for their reaction but because it was we are built to do. Their is nothin greater then offering value. No need to analyze what other think because you cant control that. You have to let go of the ego here. Cant control what girls like you. You have no control here. You only have control over liking yourself. THings i like?? Being geuine to myself, authentic, playful, make others feel good, investing in people that need that love, take right action in things i want, not wasting my time trying to control others thoughts about me. Just loving myself... This is my life journey and my concern is not winning the girl its winning me.

How to kill state and live like a chode

DOnt trust state. analyze it! Analze yourself! create storys about yourself! Analzye others thoughts about you ! Put boudaries on your state such as i shoudnt act like this cause its not really me! Yea its not you because you are planning to leave the better part of you! ANALyze the open!! Analzye which girls like yoU! Continue to think what others think about you! Live yourself as a follower! Communicate to your friends that you are truely deep down a chode! PLan when you get home to leave state! Its only is needed when you want chicks! DOnt live your live epic for yourself! What about the enviroment! Trust me state has it! What about not having material to say! Trust me state has it wait YOU HAVE IT! WHen out of state what to do? Trust yourself and shut up! DOnt put boudares on yourself! Limiting beliefs! Anaylzing peoples reactioin to you! COntinue thinking so you live the shitty half of your life! Here is a better idea! STOP THINKING! Stop analzing! COnquer shit for your own purpose! DOnt try to hit state cause you natually are state! IT is not something you should try to get to ! YOU All ready are it! We have trained are selfs out of state! WOW GREAT WORK SOCIETY PROGRAMMING! ARE NA
TUAL FUCIN SELF IS STATE!! SO STOP THINKING of the ruels break free and be you! STATE takes crazy amount of forms hot/ semering coal all of them SO dont worry you will be what you need to be to enjoy yourself the most! HOW bout when your on dates!? STATE HAS IT!! STATE HAS EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO BE!! TRUST IT! You


AND YES DO NOT GIVE A DAMN WHAT ANYONE ON THIS PLANET OR MARS HELL EVEN JUPITER THINKS OF YOU

MARK DAVID WATSOn

You want LORDING!

YOu are not to give a DAMN what anyone on this planet thinks of you. IN STATE YOU TRUST You dont analzye. YOU TRUST that simply YOU GOT IT!! What is it.. Whatever is needed!!! You are not to give DAMN! what anyone on this planet or even FIN MArs thinks of you..... LORD IT!!! IN Fact blow analzying TRUST

Make options happen

SO my intent continues to grow like a man mad on crack. I see myself going more and more for the things i want. I am going to continue doing this with everyone. Not just one girl but all. There is not reason to not have at lease 5 great chicks in my life. Just got to call them up and get together.

man up bitch

Mark

INTENT LORDING

SO what does a man do? HE literally goes after what he wants. He does do this in the future or plan it out. He takes it now! WAITING IFs for DAMN CHODES AND leaves to NOTHING. MAN up and take what you want! You want to see her! Dont wait for tommrow NOW IS the time! You want to talk to her WALK UP! YOU want her go take her! Let that man fire burn like a seeming coal! You want to kiss her? THen kiss her! Its yours you fall friend zone when you dont lack intent instead you dont let it rule you. TIME TO LIVE INTENT deluxe!

Mark

Celebration

Life is one big celebration of your life! You dont dwell on your weakness. You make your life as awesome as you can for yourself. You do things not for others approval but because it adds to your adventure. If a girl is non interested then it would never work anywyas. This is your journey and you 2 are obviously un congrudnet for each other. So be the man you want to be!

My advenutre- PLayful as hell... I dont take to much serious but i love being able to switch into a deeper listening mode. Random adventures throughout the day! Business i take on! Yummy foods! USc football. Mastery of online poker. AWESOME girls deluxe. Over fuming amounts of postivity. Taking discipline when it comes to life to a whole new level. Loyallty to the point on no return. Kayak. Random trips all over the globe. Music to deeper connect myself to life. Intent driven! I go for what i want for the purest intentions. Social butterfly delexue. Awesome life and i love it

Imortaility is OURS take it!

Mark David Watson

My Masterpiece

When at a plateu, sometimes you have to rewind the clocks. The last 4 months i have heavily been analyings parts of my social dnamics game. From voice toine, body languae, intent, facil expression, energy level, enviroment, clothing and even the words comming out of my mouth. I did all this to fix some wholes in my social dynamics but now its time to start trusting myself again. For state devrives from being out of head and in the moment. This is what i have learned

There are 2 major communication channels and each has its use

1) Salesman/ Friend/ Parents/ Communication Channel

This channel is geared towards the other person. You subconscious work towards easing tension and pleasing the other person. You will use a shit load more facial expression in this channel and people will like you. You lead the conversation but its all about them. Your questions are aimed at letting the other person talk about themselfs. This builds trust and likability. This works very if you are comming into a huge group when attraction is not a factor

2. Attraction Mode

This channel is geared towards YOU! Its simple Self amuzment. You are non reactive to what others think of you and every moment is a celbration of you. In a conversation you are letting the girl game you as much as you are gaming her. You are attracting her for your fun. This is not for her its for you. She is applying the same stradegy for her self. You should have a leading frame here but not be controlling the conversation. You should slow down your energy once you began talking to her or she will feel the conversation is rushed. 2 cant vibe if ones on crack.

So is their a right mode or wrong mode to be in? No its just matters the scenario. When it comes to women, you want more of 2 then of 1. Of course you want to incomporate 1 in at a certain point especially the repoar part if you want a relatioship.

I see allot of guys eaither have one or 2. Very few have a awesome mix of both. I belive the most socially advanced guy have a blend of both. So for me my blend looks like " Walk up to the set smile "Hey whats up Im "MArk" shake hands . The bigger the social group the more of 1 will be necessary to keep them from hating you. 2 is used though to attract the girl! Remember if she is not gaming you! Your dead. So you need both to attract women. Group dnamics uses both but when its time for you and the girl. 2 is most crucial.

Example- When i got to gether with Danielle. She got burnt out of me because i just told her my stories. I never slow things down and let her game me!

+ Example- With Vi- In her car i just chilled and let her run things on me. I didnt control the conversation at this point. It was 2 people playing around

+ Example- Sarah and me. We didnt start in the repoar stage. We started in 2. I would game her and she would game me.

master

2 types of ways to communicate


1) Around people that have won your validation/ to make feel comfortable. Smile tons. give approcal even when it is miscalbriated. Show instrested no matter ow boring it is.

2) People who you want to be receptive to you. Girls and Groups.... Smile but slow it down/ speak with conviction/ dont be looking for response/ swager to voice/ loud at times/ keep stories short and sweet. smirks such as cocky mark smirk/

Learning to tone it down

From what i am seeing i have to tone my energy down. Still bring enthusaism but literally slow things down. When i talk, dont rush to the end. Let pauses happen or i will be MR.entertainer. Dont try to control the conversation so much. LET Other people tell their stories. Rember its not what you say its the sub commonications. The eye contact, the smeling the enjoyment. To much talking is Mr. Enteraner man. Pauses in your talk and slow it down. In a way you almost want to add a style to your talking. So communicate like your their to inspire, to let people into your private world. Clark is a good example of this. Paues in his voice a tad bit of recervation yet curiously in his voice. In a way you are welcoming people to your party but making sure they are value givers back. .. You dont do this by talking quick or being loud at certain moments. Its pauses in your speaking. My brain computes much faster then most so its imporant for me to let things sink in to others. Story telling lots of pauses and talk normal speed but loud. Less words but keep emphasis.

For higher social inteligence people not as much nodding of the head. This looks needy and almost seking rapport. SO CHILL. Talk slower. DOnt be looking for where to take the conversation. Dont smile constally in the set. This gives the impresion that you are just happy tha tpeople are talking to you. The word chills means dont rush it. Just enjoy the present. SO main points slow voice, stop tring to control conversations, pauses in voice to let others talk and compute, speak with convictions, talks with CONVICTION "Means you belive it in your reality CLARK CRUSHES at this", Sub communication "the eye contact", the voice tone, making her chase u, dont look for reaction in your voice



Speak slower and more convicting. Do this by saying less but what you say is more imporant. Dont look for reactions in your talks.


Mark

Happy about me

I was sitting in my bed with ten pound eye lids over comming my body and then it hit me. I need to write a blog about me. I have been told by allot of people that i am way to hard on myself. I have decided to write this on the thigns i love about myself. 1) I am a wicked social dude.... I am really tative and really have no enemies 2) I am the most loyal friend on the planet. I would do anything for a friend 3) I offer value to people i meet. I cheer up those who are down. 4) I am assertive deluxe. Every girl i know i feel so comforetable hugging and enyoying 5) I am a harrrrd worker! 6) I put my heart into everthing i do 7) I have great communication skills. I am able to relate and make people feel at ease 8) I am able to run a group like its nothing 9) Able to tell stories 10) people enjoy being around me 11) I am able to bring the party by myself.... I am going to start seeing that people want to be around me no matter whay i feel or do. I am not being fake with people. I am genuinely being me and people are respodning great. This is not a pua self that they are seeing this is genuinly me. I am loved by girls and guys. I am living an abudant life. I swear to not anlyze what people think of me anyone. it does no good and trufully it is blown WAY OUT of portion. I SWEAR this NOW! MY MISSION IS TO GET OUT OF MY HEAD when it comes to what others think of me. I for a long time did not have this problem but i became miscalirbated. THIS IS NOT THE CASE ANY MORE. I AM NOT ENTERTAINER MAN AND I AM RESPECTING the rules of the enviroment. I am not allowed to anlyze what others think of me. I am only to be aware in the moment of how people react. I SWear this is my new rule.

The core to social dynamics

The core to social dynamics

1. State - 2 forms inner confidence or exterior confidence mission is derive state from inner confide. State = happy in moment and non reactive

2. Callibration - 3 forms of calibration
1. Enviroment- Adapting to your envirorment, clothing, energy level,
2. Social- Talking in a way that is enjoyed by both parties. includes voice tonaility, stories, ext...
3. Sub communciation- "Vibing", Body language

How does calibration happen? Through your Social values. Your social values are the way you belive the world views its value. It is the range of values you are open to discussing. Example i will listien to a dude talk about cheating on his girlfriend but i myself would never do it. A person with a broad range of social values will be able to get along with more people because they are open to more things. Social values are derived from refrence expereince. Being around lots of people. How this applies to the 3 levels of calibration are 1) Enviroment- You understand what energy level the group has and what they expect and you are able to meet that expectation 2) You talk about things that are socially accept and talk in a way that gets the reaction you want 3) You calibrate your body in a way you belief the world expect out of you. "you woudnt talk to someone facing the other way, you know this cause of your social values".

Value normal- Your beliefs this can be such things as stances about abortion, religion, sex, and other debatable things.

Your social values usually trumps your normal values in social setting since you are just listening to their values. You may not agree with the social value but you realize its their opinion and you prefer to not create social tension. Conflict happends when your normal value stance trumps your social value. So you feel that you must defend your value since it it greater then keeping the social vibe going.

Deep emotional bond happends when both your normal values are congruent with each other. This is for deeper relatioships.

State can be flawless powerfull if you know the rules

Being in state is wicked powerul. When in state you are out of your head and you are the giver of great emotions. The thing is its important to know the social rules while in state. What i mean by this is just because you are in state does not mean you can act any way you want in a night club. Their are still enviromental rules and to ignore these is miscalibrated and down right rude. Examples of this was when me and my boys would go to the park "Lounge'. We would walk in that joint and literally look like a blazing fire ball. We didnt feel out are surrodings and adjust our state to the enviroment. This allot of night ended with us becoming a taboo in the night clubs. I am not saying that a blaze of fire would not work but it would have to be in the correct setting. Such as a bar where people are drunk off their ass. The counter arguemnt will come from the more advanced guys that say Dont think just self ammusze and let state take care of the rest. I would argue that when you know certain rules you will calibrate your state subconcionsuly to be in a manner that is apporiate for the enviroment. For instance while in state i recongnize at times i am talking to fast. I will slow down my talking but not loose state. I recongnized a social rule and adjusted it. Same thing with a night club. I think the reason many dudes that study this state stuff have troubled with normal days time lifes because they have misinterpreted state. Live in state but the more social norms you subciciusly know the more calibrated you will be.

Can you take me higher?

So i am rockin this stuff! Its time to take it up a notch. First lets celebrate. The server project is working great. I am crushing these tournaments and my income has gone up huge. I took the next step in my poker career and moved up to 54 dollar tournaments 2 at a time. I am up 650 at these for 20 hours of work. That is a positive count of 13 more wins in the week. I feel its time to move up to 108 dollar touraments. If i can win these consitenly i will make well over 50 an hour profit overall. My BR is 1500 and should give me enough leverage to play these solid. I made a goat of 2k and a BR of 1k by the end of the month. I am way over this. My BR is 1500 and i have about 2700 and there is still 2 weeks left. What now? Push it harder! My aim is by october 31 to have a Br of 2k and my bank account sitting at 5500! Got to keep the goals realistic. Site is doing good but i am finding my time is better spent playing. Women life is great. I am taking chicks on dats and feel wicked comfortable in my skin.

Cheers and its grind time

Mark!

Dwelling on your past in seek of answers is ego

So today i got together with a good friend. We begin talking about my father and some of my past expereicnes. I watched as my state dropped like a rock because i made my past experiences into my now idenity. No more of this Junk... Btw i am going to be joining a Fraternity!!!!!!!!

Cheers
Mark

Not putting idenity through your actions

One thing i constally struggle with is putting labels on myslef. I constally look for reasons to validate my identiy. For example if i am non social i label myself as non social. If i am enterainer man i label myself enterainer man. So the next time i do something i have to fight against the idenity i didnt lile. . My most enjoyalbe memories are ones that there was no label of good or bad. Just experiences! No identity or expereicnes creates you into something. There is no threat if i am non social or wicked social. NON of these label me anything.

Cheers

Christ is king
Mark

time to start loving myself

I have contally been looking into self improvemtn to fix my quirky uncalibrated ways. I have done so so much that it is not fun anymore. I am no longer letting people meet me but instead giving them the fake pu version of me i think they want. I don't want to do this any mmore. I dont want to be in my head any more. I am done trying to figure out what people want and instead going to let them meet me. Its time to celebrate me instead of waiting to build the perfect product of me to put on the market. This means no in my head over what i said. No more question how i am going to be in a certain social scenario. just pure trust in me.
mark

Peace from within

Just finished having an incrediable talk with my buddy Johnny. Theory Being Geunine with people reminds u how we are all 1 and not unique. Being real allows us to be one with everone and the earth. This creates state. You loose state when you seperate yourself from the world. As you are more real with the world, the more value you give and allow people to get to know you. Ill write more later.. One could think then how do you be unique arnt we all unique? No we are not unique. As we become more grounded with the earth and one with all we began to become expression of joy. This makes us much more attractive to everyone and we are now value givers. What are we value giving? The reminder to all that they do belong to this beaitufl planet of earth and they get to feel the strenth of not being seperate from the whole.. So how do you be guine? You be real about the fact that we arnt seprate as a species. You no longer have to hide yoru insecurites infact you get to praise them becasue others get to see their own humanity in you. You become a source of strenth and inner calmness.

Cheers
Mark


Cheers

Mark

Restructing my beliefs

I have realizd allot of my core beliefs about women have been terribly wrong. I came to take value and never offer any. What has this produced in my life? A ton of quick enjoyment at best but no real relationships. How can i bless others if i dont let them get to know me.

My mission- To offer value to people i meet and be genuine with them.

How do i do this- Get to know them. Present a calm energy. Stilness. I am a protector of others. Before i was there to proect myself through them. Those days are done. Being a listener just as much as a talker. Enthusiasm. PLayful ness. But the core of me is comfort.

Great opners now- Hey how we doin? Im Mark , these come in the moment trufully but based the intro on a curisity in them. CONVEY Interest ! Doing force conversation just chill and enjoy... Most imporantly TRUST

Cheers

Mark

Genuiness

I had it backwards... With people start with comfort and inject playfulness into it. which = genuine. If you start as pure self amusning, how will you enjoy their personallity? You wont because you are unrealatable. Instead just greet yourself and as the converastion conitues inject the playful into it. This leads to comfort for both and a flirty mindset. The pu world strays from this because we are comming from a needy mindset. Once you are a cool man you need to become genuine. By far the most imporant blog i have ever written.

Mark

The fear of scucess

I realize at times i have a fear of sucess. But really what is sucess? Does it make me happier? No.. Trufully when i becoem a work alcholic to the point i am not enjoying life i am rally feeding my ego. I become obssed with the future instead of living in the now. I refuse to live life waiting for massive sucess in anything. Cause trufully its all an ego and one i am done feeding. THe now does not care for possesion or thigns of future or path. In fact it doesnt care for words, God is greater then words. We can just sit in awe and be hubled by the fact we can partake in this great thing called life.

Cheers

MArk

Half dome prepare to get owned

Yes i will be doing half dome in hopefully 6 weeks lord willing i can get a camp ground. I have had 2 twice now get laid out by the moutain not again. I am comming back with full vengance. I am running 3 times a week and doing abbs the other days. My goal is to run 3 9 min miles in 6 weeks. Its not wicked fast but it shold have me in good enough shape... To be continued...

Callibration of friends

Well i finally got back into the scial thing. i have been working 16 hours straight for 9 days and no that was not including school. I felt quite nervous and misscalibrated. Why? I had not been working my social muscles. I will never let it get that bad again i promise myself. It did help me have a great break thoguh. TO get callibrated spend time with your good friends. I am findning myself becomming allot more calm and not talking as fast or feeling the need to feel in quite moments. I belive this is happening from spending time wiht lvoes one who love me regardless of anything else. I am going to make it a mission to spend allot more time with my love ones.

CHeers Christ is king "My confidece derives from Christ not myself"

Mark

HOW YOU FEEL Trumps everything

You get to a point in this stuff where no longer does it matter looking into body langue tonality or anything else. State is the only thing that matter. How you feel is all that matter? So how do you feel better? 1) dont take your self serious 2) stop anlaying 3) Love life 4) Fall in love with the moment

HOW YOU FEEL IS KING

Cheers

Mark

social dynamics

Recap what i know... I am not a fan of looking for outside advice in this area since i feel i have a great udnestanding and creating my style my way is the only thing left to do.

I am adding to this as i see fit

1) HAve fun ( this means do the things you truely want to do.. Dont go to an event to be social go because it makes you feeeeeeeell gooood..
2) voice tone br or nr ( Never Tr voice tone)
3) Be relatable not in a tr way but so people can relate.. i have become to much better at allowing people to get to know me
4( leading frame
add on- Dont tell storys about things you dont care to talk about instead its ok to have a silent moment... You dont want to fall into entrainment man which happens so easily when you are trying to block silent moments
5) man with intent- take what you want dont hesitate
6) friendly
add on - Truely what trumps everything is how you feeeell... Example last night i went to a social gatherning... I didnt feel good or care to be there... Result was borning conversation and no fun

Question is what to do when in these- 1) rember why your here (to have fun not social dynamis) 2) dont take yourself seriouslyyyy!!! its ok your going to have awkward moments 3) Dont force yourself to do things you dont care to do for the name of socialiation 4) DOnt talk to fast in these conversation just chillll... CHILLL.... CHILLLLLLLL.. CHILLLLLL


7) let your true desires dicate your own action not the influence of others or an ego
8) Its better to have 1 awesome girl like you for you then 50 like you for something your not
9) more is not always better
10) look for a playful persoanlity
11) look for adventerous mindset
12) look for optimisium
13) look someone who is loving
14) value giver
15) loyal all the way
16) loves god
17) enthusatic about life
18) easily relatable

We always talk about improving ourself at a certain point ...now its are turn to have expectations that people must be met. I am no longer a dude with an unabudnat lifee. I am a down to earth guy that seeks value giving people in his life. I dont have time for value takers.

Cheers

Mark

My buinsess course

Well my bank account is at about 1250. But finally its time to start making the money and stop spending it. I have invested well over 2k into buinsess adventures lately and now its time to stop spreading myself so thin. My buisness profit aveneus are

1) Dog rakeback
2) Winning 1-4 first place on sign ups
3) weekly tournaent hence the server
4) PLaying online poker -- funny i never get to do this one any more

I have almost completed all the projects and am about to get to enjoy the money comming in. Last mission is to get this server functioning.

Cheers to successful buinsesss

Mark

Advetnues into the wild

Just finished watching "Into the Wild" The book hit my man hood to its core. I can't help but feel a deep connection to the main character in the movie. Alex belives that the core of every man roots in adventures. I belive eveyr man should live a life full of adventures. What else are we suppose to be doing? The difference between me and ALex lies in the fact that he wanted to get away from people while i want to get mixed up with people. He disoveres the truth to hapiniess at the end of the movie when he writes "Hapniess is only real when its shared with others" I truely belive this is the case. I don't my life to be rooted with fake and phony relationships. I want genuine relationships and i want to invest myself into others. I feel their is no greater joy then to be entwined with people. Seeing this movie has flamed the fire within me to build more and more relatioships and live the most adventerous life i can. What is in store for my future? Possibly a dog, moving constally, living way out side of CA, buisness adventures, advenutues with interesting and genuine men and women, and a church life to root me. Adventures times are on their way

Cheers

Mark

NEW NEW NEw

I realzie i love new things. I love to switch it up. I am going to try to feed this side of my perosnality more and more. I belive its a huge reason at times i love to meet people. They add something new to my life. Screw people pleasing BTW! Anyways NEW NEW

CHeers

I need to give myself allot more rest from work

I have a terrible work tendecy. I work way to much. I will break down an average day for myself.

Wake up at 8:45 Head to class Class from 9:30 to 12:30 - Get home at 1

Make lunch from 1:00-1:30

1:30 to 7 Poker (my job) this one can go much further then this. I do get a shake in somewhere.

Dinner 7:00 - 7:45

Website From 8:00 - 10:30

10:30- 11:30 Gym with the flawless natural tom Adams!

Bible reading from 11:30 until about 12

pass out....

Now this sounds brutual but that is a school day

Non school day

wake up at

10
Bath always :) untul 10:30
otmeal time until 11 oclock

poker from 11:00 6 oclock (shake thrown in)

Gym from 6:30-7:30 with natural tom

Dinner from 7 :45- 9 oclock got to cook it right ;)

9 :00- 11:30 website or hw if i had no choice

bible and pass out


Ways i can improve this

Well the webiste will be getting more busy since i am taking on 3 new projects. I cant help it! i love it

Poker needs to be moved more to weekend. This is huge !
Ohh and adding 3 new activies a week this will help me rest.

Cheers and lovin life!

Mark

Glorious trip to Santa Barba

Power of socialiazion. Just be social not becase you have been told to do so. Do it because you never know where things will take you. Dont do it if you feel you have to. DO what you desire!

Cheers Mark

Intent

I had a break through with Intent. It did not come from studying anything or trying new things. It came through just doing what i wanted. Since being away from the night scence, i have gotten away from allot of pu infulences. What i have been left with is just me. The intent came out not because i thought it needed to i just had the desire to do so. Getting away from PU has been very helpful in making me become the man God wants me to be. It feels great to let a girl know how you feel that moment . Don't do so cause i said it but do so if you feel it pulling on you. Intentent can be pysical or vocal or even both. Do what your heart desires

Cheers

Buisness Adventures Deluxe "changin lifes"

So i will be adding to the website quite a bit. I want to add a whole new coaching department to my website. I will allow players to apply for coaching if they meet a certain criteria. In return i will get their RAKE BACK :) I also want to offer the highest rakeback at any site! How do i plan to do this? I want to have a program built that gives players some of the rakeback i receive!

Way down the road is a black jack website but realistially the other ideas are much hotter!

Fun times deluxe !

Mark

Glory of bustin the bulls balls

Time to set some standards to push the limits!

I will move up to the 32 dollar tables as soon as i have 2000 grand in my bank and my bank roll is sitting at 1500 dollars.

Once i am at the 32 tables i am going to set up inet spread sheet to track my play. Its time to get some data ;)

Website i will have the site done within 2 weeks! This site is ready to take off and take my inet advenutres to the next level!

I will next month take 1st and second on the referral program GUARANTEED!!

MY ATTENTIONS ARE GOOD SOMETIMES MISUNERSTOOD!

My boy ELLS is off on his Europe TOUR And it pumped me up to make some strives towards more traveling. THis year i aim to do a trip a month. Right now i am in arizona which i have been for the last week and a half. MY next trip will be to Santa barbra as well as San luis obispo and Ventura county to visit my boy JEFF "Damn i miss that guy". I plan to take mucho pics since i have a terrible tendencay of doing none.

Taking the indenity out of everything

Its funny when you go out as much as i did. You began to expect the same old thing in your interaction and in everything you do. You began to epect the same thing every interaction. THis is happening because i put form to something that has no form. Form is something that in your minds has already taken place. A new stranger has no form because the event is happening in the present moment. A good example of this is in public speaking. I have previously sucked at public speaking. I automatically assume i will suck next time i do public speaking because of my past experience. 2 problems in this 1) I am living out of the moment 2) I am saying that the past moment dictates my reality. This is a failire mindset and one i shall octoquivickly destroy. What does octoquickly mean? i have no idea it just sounded really cool.

CHeers MATEEEESSS!

Mark

You cant always get what you want BUt you can always do waht you want!

MAN OH MAN! I have been having a blast. I have been doing what i want when i want. I find myself getting more suddren urges to do random things then ever. I am seiing my love for people growing by the second. What do i owe this 2? Being in the moment and listening to my hearts sudden urges. One thing i found that i did allot in my social interactions is put rules to everything. I have to open and i have to talk to people blah blah blah. HECK I HAVE TO GO OUT! These thigns are good if you lack social skills and really need to get yourself out of your shell. But i am at a point where this is no longer necessary. I don't need to prove to myself that i am cool. There is no need to put rules to things anymore. Whatever i do i do because in the moment i desired to do it. I find no reason to analzye if doing this will make me a better man blah blah blah. Instead if i feel a urge then i will do it.

LETS ALL HAVE CHILD LIKE HEARTS!!

YEa BOY!!

MARK THE i dont know ill think of some cool name later

Keep your heart 2 step!

SO just cause i am not going as much to night clubs does not mean the part stops mates! The things i learned as part of RSD carries on to all parts of my life. If one thing i learned in all of this stuff is don't take yourself seriously. Self amusement is where it is at. That doesn't mean that its all illogical all the time but doing what you want when you want all the time. I find i get allot of urgers to jump over things as i walk. SO i do it! Peoples validation is dead and the play fest begans! YEA BOY!!!I like high fiving people and saying whats up to people close by so i do. I do what i want because that truly is what makes better people.

Keep your heart 2 step!

Mark

Fun TRUMPS ALL !!!

Whats up mates!

Its been quite a while since I wrote on here. I am here to talk about what I see as the key to ALL social dynamics.

I have taken a break from the night clubs scence and I have been anyzing the most important things I have learned in this year and a half. I have been been tediously looking in all the wrong spots. I have wasted time analyzing conversations and breaking apart the way I touched women and everything else. I keep trying to find the pinpoint of what caused my most enjoyable nights. Was it the way I broke rapport as I open? Was it the way I smiled as she tried to make fun of me? Was it the way I made a quick remarks which turned into illogical conversations about Aladin? Was it the way I slowly seduced her body by constantly talking to her? As I dug deeper into these questions, I began to get worried if I would ever be able to duplicate these scenarios. Finally after listening to a hynposis tape and spending a long hour in the bath did I find the answer I was looking for. These things happened because I went out to have FUN! Fun creates creativity and leads to all the crazy stories that me and some of my best friends have got to enjoy. When I go out to have fun, everythng else takes care of its self.

I have made a mission this upcoming college semester to get allot more involved in the community. My mindset originally was to sharpen my social dynamic skills. This is no longer the case! I am getting involved in the community because I love spending time with people and being involved. I don't enjoy being a hermit in my house for long periods of time. I enjoy meetign all the unique humans this planet has to offer and I want to meet AS many as I can. I want to build relationships with these people and let them get to know me!

I belive that trust in yourself is related to fun. At this point, you could say I have approached well over 2000 groups. How in the world did I never have lines and get them to enjoy interacting back with me? It comes down to me having fun. I didnt need a line because I was enjoying the moment and they happened to pass me. I didn't analyze what I said or give a crap if people wernt going to like me. I was my own party and that was sufficient. There are plenty of times I doubt myself and ask myself “Can you do it again?” This question from now on is trumped with “You feel like having fun”? Fun is the key to social dynamics. Were not here to impress girls, or strangers, were here to enjoy are selfs.

FUn i belive should be the leader any any skill set you choose to learn. If you are not having fun, then you should question why your learning the skill. Fun drives us to get better but relives the stress out of the process. Quote "MW"

FUN is the key to devleoping any skill..

In dedciation to Baxtur Bailey “A 65 rogue on everquest bristlebane server”

Dont try to impress

Pick up is all wrong. We learn how to impress chick instead of creating our own style for ourself. I am done trying to get all girls to like me the fact is i have my own style and some will like it while others will hate it. I am done working on a skill and instead living the mark adventure. What does this entail? Doing whatever the hell i want. I dont go out to work on a skill but instead party with my friends. When in public, i talk when i want and dont talk when i dont want to. Its mark time. Good bye pick up

MArky mark

Assertivness

Just got done reading a post by Ozzie. He talks about the importnace of assertivness but what exactely is assertivness. Assertivness is leaving your mark. He dicuses saying statments instead of questions. Not trying to fill in the quiet moments because you should trust that what you said was worth being disucces. You make statments and you do not care abou tthe reaction. They key speak but do not try to impress. Quote Ozzie

Most guys struggle to fill in the gaps of a conversation with girls. In my case, I want to say my bold statement, something I really feel like saying and let them talk.
It is very counter intuitive because most guys find it hard to stop talking after they say something bold. They feel they must “explain themselves”, more like “apologise themselves” for having a spine. I force them to shut up and listen to the girls. It works. This single exercise here is responsible for most epiphanies on day 1 on my live program. Guys cannot believe what just happened. They expressed themselves honestly around a girl and the girl loved it.

DO this

Mark

Glory times in the clubs

I had a ephinay in the clubs. I went out to have fun. No mindset of pick up, just pure fun. If a group was not fun for me then i left. I didnt work for validation i didnt give a crap for it. I did what i wanted. I didnt beg to be enjoyed i just enjoyed myself. I took what i wanted and expected people to enterain me as much as i was enteraning myself. I found myself the value and anyone wanting to get in the way of that was going to get blown. For instance when i was chatting with a cutie at the bar i grabbed her and whisper things in her ear Or tell her to get closer.. ANother example was the first group of girls i talked to, they were boring so i told them they were and walked away. I didnt ask instead i just lead. Felt great and had a good time. Yes their is typos deluxe.

Mark

Website learning exp

Dograkeback is my first privately owned website. I am learning a ton but in the process i am creating unnecceary stress. The facts are the website is going to take a long time to perfect. At the moment, most of my application are falling through. It is going to take many failures before the balance is semi perfect. I need to accept this and not get frustrated that my product is not perfect. I need to take my own constructive cristism instead of figthing against it. The reason i am great at poker is because i am ok with making mistakes because i am willing to learn off them. I need to take the same approach to the website. I am going to create a list of things that need to be done. I am going to limit myself to one fix a day. Also no more checking my email hoping new players have signed up. I am going to balance my life out with the web site. Main form of advertising is in game and on 2+2 form. No need to waiste time on most other forms of advertising.

Glorious

Mark

Pure Exhaustion

I feel unrested. I have been studying for my midterms, working on my website, and playing online poker. I enjoy doing all 3 in moderation but the balance is way off. I am behind in school due to laziness. I have been doining 4 90 min study sessions a day to catch up. On my break time i have been working on my website. I am giving myself very little rest time from work. My work is my job but it needs to be in moderation. I am going to moderate each of these and when i take breaks money or will not be involved.

Disipline in School

I am going to keep this short and to the point. School has become a burden on me due to laziness and not taking right action. I am going to cut messing around and do 2 90 minute sssions of studying a day. No distractions straight grinding!!

Vision board of success

I am at a turning point in my life. I am a tad bit scareed yet there really is nothing to be scarred of. I feel myself wanting to hide instead of pushing myself.. This fearful mindset comes to an end. The next phase of focus for me is building a social cirle. This week i am going to hunt for activites i can be apart of. I am tired of my life being focused on night club activites only. Getting my socialization only through night clubs is not healthy. I am realzing there is more to lfie then just meeting random chicks. I want there to be more comfort in my life when it comes to sociablity. This will not happen if i depend only on night clubs. I am going to began to put myself first when it comes to want i want socially. If i dont want to go out i wont. I will hang out with who i want regardless if my other friends dont like them. I am done listening to others bicker about the people they dont like. I am no problem solver just another dude enjoying his life. ALl forms of gossip are dead for me. Starting tommrow i am creating my vision board of succes!!

Day time self actualization

The facts are this: My comfort zone is night time. This ends now. I have been avoidning day time socilization for quite some time. I am trying to understand the day time (me). What i am writing does not define me but rather gives me an idea of what i would enjoy most of the time. For one i am more calm yet happy. I enjoy the calmness and the realness of my self and others. At night i am usually excited as hell for the stimulation which i love but in day time i like things slower paced. I wont talk as loud as night clubs and i will break rapport much less! I will chat with people walking next to me like they are another cool ass human on this beautiful planet we call earth. I am not trying to impress but instead enjoy the beauty of other humans. I will begin approaching 3 girls a day. I dont have lines just pure calmness and enjoyment. Here i go again :)
The key to this? Dont think just be. NO head space! I love it. ALready feel the glory. life is so awesome!!

Yours truely ALWaYS you and I MARK


This is the pillar of flawless natural game. Instant attraction. You cannot control what she is feeling, but you can control what you are and your experience.
It is empowering to know that if you express yourself to the right tune, feel good, genuinely trust yourself and live a perceptually fulfilled life women will never be far away.

On the Watson Path

Tonight has been a glorious night. I got back to the path which is most important my Own. I broguth my own party and opened my own sets. I did not relly on a wing but was blessed to have one. It was a glorious night. I have been elimnating win loose scenrarios from my life and the balance i have been discussing is happening. I am nothing but cheers and smiels tonight. Yes i met some gloriously awesome chicks but more imprant i was on my path and had fun!!

Glorious!!

Mark

Feeling the flame

A day of chill. I was wicked productive today and i gave myself plenty of alone time.
The resut? I feel awesome. I stayed out of my head and just enjoyed the day. Stayed away from the drama and soaked in a beautiful day.

:) Mark

A honest night

Well its 3 in the morning and im not ready for bed. I feel so burnt out lately. I dont know what it is but i just lack any enthusasim. I have started my martial art traning and really enjoy it. A piece of me just always feels behind. Its like if its not school its lack of poker time. if both poker and school is up to date, its a lack of hitting the night clubs. If i have done all 3 its lacking working out. I geuss i just feel pressured to do so much. As you can see, my thoughts in this paper are unorganize. I dont feel like organizing anything. I dont understand what is going on. I geuss i just need some lone time. I plan to turn off my phone on monday and talk to no one. I also plan to get my work done and then mediate for an hour. Tyler suggested this so i will give it ago. I plan to do allot of peaceful alone time. I need it . I plan to also take a night walk.. I havent done one of these in a while and its imporat for me to soak in my alone time glory. Also i feel my ego beggining to get involved in my pick up journey. I am begging to compare myself to others instead of learning and enjoying others strengths. This comparion comes to an end.
Anyways im off to bed

Mark

Things i want to improve on

Blending chill factor with the open corectly
my day 2's
Quit telling others about msyelf to feed my ego.
More of a listener
Take better care of my body
Be in the moment
stop thinking so much but just being
more discipline with sleep

Blending of my game

So the last 2 months has opened my eyes to the power of chill. I use to open 30+ sets a night and become mr. Hyper boy. This gets you attraction but it does not last long. I am beggining to see the power of bledning playful with chill. What is chill? A comfort in the moment, nonnediness, a trust in self, speaking slowly, expecting as much back as you give, expressing your true inner expresion i.e- you smile when you truely want to, you hug when when you feel they deserve it, you dont fake but give only what you want. You talk about what feels good and brings you joy this can be logical talk! Now playful should be part of your chill. I am not creating a picture of james bonds. So you should add the woo but not be out of contorl with it . If you dont add the playfulness to your chill prepare to have trouble on the open. You will come across as a value take intead of a value giver.
So after trying to write rules on how to mix playfullness,chill, and energy levels into every scenario i have decided thats to much work. The best rule is be a tad bit higher then thier energy level, speak with certainty but dont talk to fast and be playful, began to chill more and more as the set develops

Quit feeding the Drama

My world has been covered in drama for the last 3 months. Now my ego wants to point fingers but truely this is my own fault. Drama only exsist if i hold things in instead of accepting and moving on. I have been disussing my frustration outlouud which is just feeding my ego. I am not saying that discussing a problem with someone is wrong but when you vent your problems to other not involved this is ego. My ego has truely enjoyed these rants but truely i am robbing myself of the present moment. I am eliminating gossip from my life and instead going to accept frustations or elimante the stressful area from my life.

The year of Balance

The year of Balance has begun! The last 12 month have been the most self developing months in my life. I have conquered many of my fears and in the process found a love for LIFE! 12 months ago the idea of approaching a group of gorgeous girls was not even a thought. I would be smothered with anxiety weeks before going out and working on new exsues to avoid social scenarios . I was blessed to have a wingman named Phil who unlike me had the balls to go out in the field instead of hiding at home. I rember the night that Phil convinced me to go out to a night club. We agreed to get together to talk game but it soon turned into my first night in field. I coudnt speak a bit that night i was so scared but it opened my world to pushing my comfort zone. Since my first night in field, I have constally been pushing my comfort zone as much as i can. I have done some of the dumbest social thing imaginable from looking like a fool in front of hundreds of groups, to purposley not wearing deodrant to night clubs, to dressing like a geek for a month straight, to getting in the worst phsycial shape of my life, to putting water stains on my private part, to saying some of the most disgustingly non logical things to girls imaginable. While most would label these acts juvenile, to me they had a much greater purpose. They helped me get past a big chunk of my social anxiety. When you strip yourself of society ideals, all you are left with is your core self. What has devopled from these acts is a much more core confident man. While the path i have taken to eliminate a huge chunk of my society programmning was necessary, allot of these bizzaar experiments no longer are needed. This comming year i will began to balance out my life and get myself back in shape. I will continue to hit the field but with a much better sense of who I am. I will began to take part in other hobies i enjoy. What i am saying is PU will not run my whole life like it did last year. I will be getting in the best physcial shape of my life, going to church, training in martial arts with Leigh, continue persuing my love for poker, getting a 3.0 or higher Gpa, and expanding my social network.

Opening = trust

Why do we doubt ourself in sets? Are we trying to ammuze the crowd ? Are we worried we wont say the right things? Are we worried of rejection? Are we worried of the unknown? Or do we truly not trust in ourself?
Trusting our converation skills is something that we must learn to do all the time. It is something i at timse battle with but as of lately am seeing the light. Allot of nights before i go out i question if i can perform as well as i have in the past. What i am really doing is not trusting in myself. I rarely walk into set and not have something to speak on! But the sets that go the best i literally had nothing to speak on but trusted that whatever needed to come would come. I belive as we learn to trust ourself more and more the result will become more glrious and the nights will become even more enjoyable.

Intent and how to show it

Intent is a huge sticking point for me. I am begging to see patterns in the field on how to show intent correctely. Rule number 1 she must feel or sense your intent .Setting the intent is not through verbally showing it but physically doing so. Set the frame sexual with the eyes. When speaking to her, look her in the eyes and begin to enjoy her lips as well. She will automatically sense this attraction towards her and it sets a leading frame of sexuality instead of falling into the dreaded playful guy category! 2) Be physical from the get go! Hug her, high five her, kiss her! Constally be progressing the interaction physical. I want to make it clear that as powerful as rule number 2 is number one trumps it in a heart beat. Number 2 makes her feel comfortable with you and allows you to contally be progressing the interaaction but wihtout rule number one the interaction aint going much further.