Things i want to improve on

Blending chill factor with the open corectly
my day 2's
Quit telling others about msyelf to feed my ego.
More of a listener
Take better care of my body
Be in the moment
stop thinking so much but just being
more discipline with sleep

Blending of my game

So the last 2 months has opened my eyes to the power of chill. I use to open 30+ sets a night and become mr. Hyper boy. This gets you attraction but it does not last long. I am beggining to see the power of bledning playful with chill. What is chill? A comfort in the moment, nonnediness, a trust in self, speaking slowly, expecting as much back as you give, expressing your true inner expresion i.e- you smile when you truely want to, you hug when when you feel they deserve it, you dont fake but give only what you want. You talk about what feels good and brings you joy this can be logical talk! Now playful should be part of your chill. I am not creating a picture of james bonds. So you should add the woo but not be out of contorl with it . If you dont add the playfulness to your chill prepare to have trouble on the open. You will come across as a value take intead of a value giver.
So after trying to write rules on how to mix playfullness,chill, and energy levels into every scenario i have decided thats to much work. The best rule is be a tad bit higher then thier energy level, speak with certainty but dont talk to fast and be playful, began to chill more and more as the set develops

Quit feeding the Drama

My world has been covered in drama for the last 3 months. Now my ego wants to point fingers but truely this is my own fault. Drama only exsist if i hold things in instead of accepting and moving on. I have been disussing my frustration outlouud which is just feeding my ego. I am not saying that discussing a problem with someone is wrong but when you vent your problems to other not involved this is ego. My ego has truely enjoyed these rants but truely i am robbing myself of the present moment. I am eliminating gossip from my life and instead going to accept frustations or elimante the stressful area from my life.

The year of Balance

The year of Balance has begun! The last 12 month have been the most self developing months in my life. I have conquered many of my fears and in the process found a love for LIFE! 12 months ago the idea of approaching a group of gorgeous girls was not even a thought. I would be smothered with anxiety weeks before going out and working on new exsues to avoid social scenarios . I was blessed to have a wingman named Phil who unlike me had the balls to go out in the field instead of hiding at home. I rember the night that Phil convinced me to go out to a night club. We agreed to get together to talk game but it soon turned into my first night in field. I coudnt speak a bit that night i was so scared but it opened my world to pushing my comfort zone. Since my first night in field, I have constally been pushing my comfort zone as much as i can. I have done some of the dumbest social thing imaginable from looking like a fool in front of hundreds of groups, to purposley not wearing deodrant to night clubs, to dressing like a geek for a month straight, to getting in the worst phsycial shape of my life, to putting water stains on my private part, to saying some of the most disgustingly non logical things to girls imaginable. While most would label these acts juvenile, to me they had a much greater purpose. They helped me get past a big chunk of my social anxiety. When you strip yourself of society ideals, all you are left with is your core self. What has devopled from these acts is a much more core confident man. While the path i have taken to eliminate a huge chunk of my society programmning was necessary, allot of these bizzaar experiments no longer are needed. This comming year i will began to balance out my life and get myself back in shape. I will continue to hit the field but with a much better sense of who I am. I will began to take part in other hobies i enjoy. What i am saying is PU will not run my whole life like it did last year. I will be getting in the best physcial shape of my life, going to church, training in martial arts with Leigh, continue persuing my love for poker, getting a 3.0 or higher Gpa, and expanding my social network.

Opening = trust

Why do we doubt ourself in sets? Are we trying to ammuze the crowd ? Are we worried we wont say the right things? Are we worried of rejection? Are we worried of the unknown? Or do we truly not trust in ourself?
Trusting our converation skills is something that we must learn to do all the time. It is something i at timse battle with but as of lately am seeing the light. Allot of nights before i go out i question if i can perform as well as i have in the past. What i am really doing is not trusting in myself. I rarely walk into set and not have something to speak on! But the sets that go the best i literally had nothing to speak on but trusted that whatever needed to come would come. I belive as we learn to trust ourself more and more the result will become more glrious and the nights will become even more enjoyable.

Intent and how to show it

Intent is a huge sticking point for me. I am begging to see patterns in the field on how to show intent correctely. Rule number 1 she must feel or sense your intent .Setting the intent is not through verbally showing it but physically doing so. Set the frame sexual with the eyes. When speaking to her, look her in the eyes and begin to enjoy her lips as well. She will automatically sense this attraction towards her and it sets a leading frame of sexuality instead of falling into the dreaded playful guy category! 2) Be physical from the get go! Hug her, high five her, kiss her! Constally be progressing the interaction physical. I want to make it clear that as powerful as rule number 2 is number one trumps it in a heart beat. Number 2 makes her feel comfortable with you and allows you to contally be progressing the interaaction but wihtout rule number one the interaction aint going much further.