Be true to what you feel. I have been trying lately to constally alter my state and not listien to my inner desire. This inner desire is what is suppose to drive me and make me get what i want... You dont force it instead you just listien to it... I have not been listening to this inner desire but that changes... Never apologize for having a penis... A man takes what he wants and doesn't apolgoize for it.... So how do you do this> you listien to what you feel and leave your ego out of it... If you truely feel sad then feel sad.. DOnt reflect on why you feel sad for this is the mind instead just accept your state.... WHen you feel happy, dont tryzle to analy eit just accept it and enjoy what is.. DOnt alter instead accept....