The core to social dynamics

The core to social dynamics

1. State - 2 forms inner confidence or exterior confidence mission is derive state from inner confide. State = happy in moment and non reactive

2. Callibration - 3 forms of calibration
1. Enviroment- Adapting to your envirorment, clothing, energy level,
2. Social- Talking in a way that is enjoyed by both parties. includes voice tonaility, stories, ext...
3. Sub communciation- "Vibing", Body language

How does calibration happen? Through your Social values. Your social values are the way you belive the world views its value. It is the range of values you are open to discussing. Example i will listien to a dude talk about cheating on his girlfriend but i myself would never do it. A person with a broad range of social values will be able to get along with more people because they are open to more things. Social values are derived from refrence expereince. Being around lots of people. How this applies to the 3 levels of calibration are 1) Enviroment- You understand what energy level the group has and what they expect and you are able to meet that expectation 2) You talk about things that are socially accept and talk in a way that gets the reaction you want 3) You calibrate your body in a way you belief the world expect out of you. "you woudnt talk to someone facing the other way, you know this cause of your social values".

Value normal- Your beliefs this can be such things as stances about abortion, religion, sex, and other debatable things.

Your social values usually trumps your normal values in social setting since you are just listening to their values. You may not agree with the social value but you realize its their opinion and you prefer to not create social tension. Conflict happends when your normal value stance trumps your social value. So you feel that you must defend your value since it it greater then keeping the social vibe going.

Deep emotional bond happends when both your normal values are congruent with each other. This is for deeper relatioships.