Intent and how to show it

Intent is a huge sticking point for me. I am begging to see patterns in the field on how to show intent correctely. Rule number 1 she must feel or sense your intent .Setting the intent is not through verbally showing it but physically doing so. Set the frame sexual with the eyes. When speaking to her, look her in the eyes and begin to enjoy her lips as well. She will automatically sense this attraction towards her and it sets a leading frame of sexuality instead of falling into the dreaded playful guy category! 2) Be physical from the get go! Hug her, high five her, kiss her! Constally be progressing the interaction physical. I want to make it clear that as powerful as rule number 2 is number one trumps it in a heart beat. Number 2 makes her feel comfortable with you and allows you to contally be progressing the interaaction but wihtout rule number one the interaction aint going much further.