Blending of my game

So the last 2 months has opened my eyes to the power of chill. I use to open 30+ sets a night and become mr. Hyper boy. This gets you attraction but it does not last long. I am beggining to see the power of bledning playful with chill. What is chill? A comfort in the moment, nonnediness, a trust in self, speaking slowly, expecting as much back as you give, expressing your true inner expresion i.e- you smile when you truely want to, you hug when when you feel they deserve it, you dont fake but give only what you want. You talk about what feels good and brings you joy this can be logical talk! Now playful should be part of your chill. I am not creating a picture of james bonds. So you should add the woo but not be out of contorl with it . If you dont add the playfulness to your chill prepare to have trouble on the open. You will come across as a value take intead of a value giver.
So after trying to write rules on how to mix playfullness,chill, and energy levels into every scenario i have decided thats to much work. The best rule is be a tad bit higher then thier energy level, speak with certainty but dont talk to fast and be playful, began to chill more and more as the set develops